When You are sitting there thinking of how you can forgive remember the following verses:
And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.
But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses.
If you want to be forgiven and if you want to go and live with the Lord when you leave this earth, thewn you need to forgive. Will it be easy?
No definately not......
will you ever forget what the person has done to you? No You will not as if you forget it then you will have learnded nothing from the experience.
This could be just something the Lord has allowed to happen to test your faith.... so now what you need to ask yourself is WHAT?
What do you want me to learn from this Lord?
I encourage you to look (search) for the blogs I have been posting on Trials and Tribulations -The Testing of Your Faith I have just posted part 3 today and this is one of the topics in that post.
I will be praying for you to be able to forgive, as this is where your salvation will be lying.. May the Lord be with You always